to kiss or not to kiss

so thankful i can run my thoughts here.. just wondering if it's ryt to kiss...i've read joshua harris' books and i want to follow his example..it's just..i think he's ryt that i should kiss my bf when we are married already..just wondering if kissing my man is ryt, for my senses get awakened evrytime we kiss..and i feel quite guilty..pls help me..advice me on this...:)